The definition of mature 7 (Osho works)

 7 Gordian confusion of life and reasonable killing
mm for all it was a necessary thing. If you want to become mature, you have to do first a high wrist murderer, you killed some people before, you will not become mature. you have to kill your parents, you have to kill many of your teachers, you have to guide you kill people, they are all noisy in you, oh, they does not allow you to make you grow up mm has been very naive, so you rely on, do not make you independent.
such a thing happened in the past: there was a Buddha monks to leave to travel to promote his upcoming Buddha Dharma, the Buddha's feet when his touch, the Buddha for his blessing, and the other disciples said: I can not believe ears hear: virtue? you said he was blessed of all? song, a song in which he explained his meanings.
everyone is beginning to be brought from the children, that is your way into the world's first, that is the way you long years of being trained, you are Children grow up, all good things are specified, you are expected to follow suit, so you become very dependent on mm you always look for his father's role, you're always looking for authority to tell you what to do , or not do.
that the mature: you know as from now claims to own, decisive on their own, using their own feet stood mm that is mature. But this does not always happen, because more or less spoiled their children to their parents, they send you to school, has been on the college or university, these will be spoiled you, that mature people are not so common.
society not like a mature person, so people are dangerous elements, because he in accordance with their own essence through life, the difference from doing his thing on the opinions of others no attention. He weak fame, had his own life mm excluding any cost, he is always ready to sacrifice everything, but he would not sacrifice his freedom. society afraid of such people, society expects everyone to maintain naive, everyone stay Qicheng to fourteen years of age mm That is people's actual age.
During World War I, psychologists first identified this strange phenomenon. psychologists in the military purposes of the mental age of the first large-scale study, get a very strange Results: The average person in the military mental age is twelve years old; also possible that your body may be five years old, but the mind has to stay in the fourteen years of age.
fourteen years old before you can be suppressed because the fourth mm years of age is not easy. When a person is to the age of fourteen, if he had not been suppressed, it will never again have the opportunity to suppress him, when his sexual maturity, he is a very powerful , before the age of fourteen he was soft and feminine. At the age of fourteen before you can install anything on his head; he could accept the suggestion, you hypnotized him, tell him what you want, he will listen you, he'll believe what you said.
after the age of fourteen he began to have a logical, he questioned. his sexuality at this age, maturity, and sexual desire will he become independent, and now he can be when their own a father, and now she can become a mother myself, so natural, biological age for a person can be in the fourth and independent from their parents, which occurred early in the psychologist had known before.
priest discovered long ago, they observed a few years, they found that: If you want to subdue a child, if you want a child can not be independent, you have to do sooner the better, the sooner the better. If the seven previous
, the probability of success will be much larger, if not done before the age of fourteen, it did not in after chance.
So why are many people that children and children's education are interested in truth here, said that children should receive religious education, religion, and why? before they can be independent, to brainwash them as early as possible.
want to be free for a truly, truly want to have consciousness, really want get rid of hypnosis for people who do not want any restrictions on him, his whole life should be mm flow from his biggest job is to throw away a lot of internal things. When the Buddha said; ;, that does not mean you have to really kill them - kill you is that you bring the body of the parents, as well as from their ideas.
see, to observe, you will find out . You going to do something, and suddenly you hear your mother's voice saying: The roll of tape. you're about to eat more ice cream, and suddenly there is a moment inside of your mother spoke: feel guilty.
Another example is you are talking to a woman or a man having sex, and suddenly all the teachers who stand in line there, to tell you: , while still have time to escape before the fast. You can not enter the love, because you have been Norinari love is wrong, How can you say let go of the idea was to put out? unless you have the ability to rub out the sounds you need great courage hh, you must be prepared to lose All the voices from the parents, ready to throw away all of the authority, ready to enter the unknown, do not carry his chart, a person prepared to take risks.
once someone has had this experience. Alexander. Eliot (Alexander Eliot) with a Zen master practices Zen, for several months, is in meditation, Zen meditation, he entered the abyss of his existence. One night he had a dream, dreams are very strange people in this area on the Zen, they understand that dream mm but for a Westerner Eliot, he felt very surprised, he described the dream hh
the body looks like a ball drifted down toward me mm Yuangun body, sleep ball convex, eyebrows were bulbous, and looks rather like a ghost. character, Zen in the people in the painting his face when he painted will look like a very dangerous, they do so out of love, in fact, he did not like not the kind of looks physically mm, In fact, he looks very beautiful appearance, but if you see one mm Bodhidharma's portrait, you will be shocked!
if you look at his eyes, he looks like a killer, if he will take you to kill the same, but this is where all the Master's intention. Thus, while in a dream, Eliot felt for such a picture is still extremely scared, he could not help but shiver .
pass out, l but the pieces have not killed half a person, how could this be? r What is the meaning of the words: how do you not kill more than half of people? too late, so from now on, do not waste a single minute, immediately cut off all your marks inside, wash the inside that you roll the old tapes, loose head, tighten the spring.
from this moment on, begin've been your life, if you do not know anything, as if no one taught you anything all mm new, clean start mm from the ABC soon you will see the mature come. immature life I do not feel have been to, because all the beautiful things that only happen in a mature mind, all good things only happen in a mature mind.
can act as an adult is the key blessing, but people just grow old, they never grow up, growing old with them, but the consciousness is shrinking, they have been in consciousness is not the birth of the baby. your body but you not born mm born.
your life to his own hands mm that is your life, you're not here to fulfill anyone's expectations, not been to your mother's life, not been to your father's life, to live your their own lives.
attitude through life without
The child was depressed, could not show it; and if I let my inner child dancing, singing, and I will appear childish attitude, then how to do it? representatives will take a mature attitude: in fact, instead came from you themselves. It is a mask, a face on the color, not your real nature, we are all like that, so everyone in this world is only a matter of fact seem to mature before it mm No, deep down they are not carrying their immature mm learned from someone else's attitude, but deep within, they still are naive, they mature so that only a thin surface layer, or even do not even like to .
just a little tentative about anyone, you will see some naive revealed, not just to ordinary people - to test your Holy One, you will see his immature, or to test your minds The politicians, your leaders, so long as to see a national random people in Congress, so you will find a bunch of immature, naive people together.
people have been in self-deception, when you The only mental age of no more than ten to thirteen years old, not even to the age of fourteen! You may seventy eighty years old, but only to maintain your mental age in your sexuality, pre-mature stage. When a person in his ten Third, the age of fourteen-year-old mature sexuality, he never foreclosed, he is more and more false, and his life became a round must be a lie to another lie, and thus go on endless , you become a pile of garbage mm but it was your personality. Personality must be lost, so subjectivity will only emerge, the two are not the same, personality is a display box, only for exhibition use, it untrue.
subjectivity is your true face, it is not to demonstrate the existence of, any other people dig in you how deep love can be, he will find how you doing are the same flavor. It is said that Buddha once have said: whole, and is split personality: the center is one thing, around is another, the two never meet. Not only that, they are not only different, but just the opposite, they are always in opposition conditions.
so you first to understand one thing, never to take a mature attitude, or else is mature, or else is immature. If you are immature, becomes a mature The mm through a mature, you will be able to allow the growth occurs. so let immaturity there, do not pretend to be sincere point. If you are naive, then you are very naive mm, so what? to childish in the end, accept it, follow it, do not split your essence, or you will create a fundamental mental disorder, you just do your own.
naive nothing wrong, because you have been taught that it is wrong naive So you start to take a mature attitude, you are in an early age trying to mature, how can a child is mature? children in the end a child, he must be naive.
not be allowed, however naive, so small The children all know how they started bumbling mm smooth cunning, lies, from their earliest days of life were seen, and growing. until the day you begin to search for the truth, you can only go by the book to find inside, but unfortunately not in the scriptures of truth, the truth the essence of your being, that is the real classics, Vedanta by the Koran, the Bible mm they all in your consciousness! exactly you carry everything you need, it is a gift from God. Each person is born with the truth when they exist in mm in his life is the truth, but you began to learn to lie.
throw away all the lies, be brave; of course, you have raised the fear, because when you lose Personality , you are not allowed past the infant will surfaced, so you feel afraid: degree and I have to become childish ridiculous? out of fear - fear of the opinions of others, fear of how others think. would want that thing, and he will create a table like as a cover, which is a kind of diplomacy, this is a political act mm This is poison!
everyone knows that political wrist. You smile because you have income, you cry because you are expected to cry, you say certain words because it will be easier. You say your wife, The boss said, think so, then there are the ingredients inside the United States, it is a true rose: yes you're just pretending, to please support his male self, because you need to be met through him, that is, artificial flowers The plastic flowers.
you are not saddled with so many natural things, and that is the problem, this world is not a problem. the so-called religious people teach you to be renounced, but I tell you that this world is not the problem To lose it is in fact false mm is the problem, what people throw away that is where the problem is mm, do not abandon your family, but to abandon the false created your family.
man to be true, be sincere point. Sometimes, a true and sincere is painful because it is not cheap products. and make a true, not a Ken who is very cheap, it is a convenience, comfort the trick, That is the strategy used to protect your own, like a suit of armor, but the way, you will miss your soul has always existed in the truth, so you never know what is God, because God in you, in mm after the first because that is the closest outside you, it is your presence.
if you miss God: how can you Krishna, Jesus, Buddha being seen God? all is a lie , and if you can not see God in yourself, you will not be able to see God in Jesus, if you always lie in the manufacturing side, how do you want to see God in yourself? lies have been piled so deep that you almost forget that the essence of the way back there, you lose yourself among the layers of lies.
Nietzsche once said, people do not lie can not live without. The phrase is in the percentage Ninety-nine of the person who is right, why would people do not live a lie? because of the role lies like a buffer, it can absorb shock. lies in the function like a lubricant, so you do not often, and others a collision, you smile, others smile mm which is a lubricant, you might anger my heart to death, but you still on your wife say , for their own trouble, you will.
Do not forget, unless you know how to show your anger, you will not know how to show your love. an expression of anger is no way one can express love, because he is so to suppress their own anger, so that lost the ability to express other things. assembled everything in your existence, they are not separated.
in between anger and love, and even have a gap No, they are mixed together, interlaced with each other, they share the same energy. If you suppress anger, you also have to suppress love; if you release the love, you will be surprised to find that anger will follow rise up. or else suppress all , or else have to express it. You must understand your inner principles of organic whole math, you can not choose the same time want to suppress the expression of anger and love; if you do, your love is false, because there is no love like that heat, no warm power quality, that kind of love is only a semi-artificial conditions lukewarm, you'll never be afraid of them into a deeper love.
people's love is fake, because they are expected to go love. They love their kids, they love their spouses, friends, because they are expected to do certain things, they go to perform these things looked as if it is their duty, and in fact they do not at all happy .
you go back to see your child patted his head, just because things should be so, but you do not feel joy mm cold monotonous that the action is, your children will never forgive you, because it fell on his head cold action is ugly, he felt embarrassed and you feel embarrassed. you and your girlfriend have sex, but not into it very deeply. love can take you to far away with you to the end of joy, you can melt in them, but since you have not allowed their own temper, your anger has never been treated, how can you allow yourself ablation in love in the face of it?
have been many time such a thing would hate to hear your shocked mm mm a man killed his lover, because when he came out to allow his love, anger also went out. This is a known fact, but he was not really murderer, should bear the responsibility of society, this person is too have the courage, he entered too deeply into the love. When you go deeper, you will become very wild, because you have very good only in that part of surface, so when the anger, all things deep inside you are running out, you almost tantamount to crazy.
in order to avoid that kind of crazy, you have to in a very superficial way of having sex, so sex has never been a great place, people are right, then sneezed like: it released the tension, relax gradually the weight of the energy of your breath.
not this, this is not love the true face of love must be to make you ecstasy, not sneeze is gone, it was not a relieve, but an understanding and liberation, as you realize that love is not liberation, is the ecstasy, is Samadhi to, or you are not yet know love. but only if you do not cheat, when you're sincere when everything possible to uphold happen: When you allow anger, when you can allow the laughter, when you can allow the tears, When you can allow everything, love to happen. If you never stop their own kind of force, you are not to suppress, control, mm If you have anything had been no use of . remember clearly, did not use controls do not mean loose, did not use controls can be very disciplined life, but this discipline is not imposed from the outside, it was not an attitude to be adopted come. discipline is a experience within you, for you and meet all possible within their own, out of experiencing things for all, for you to explore all the levels: discipline occurs because you realize some things. you angry too and you know what is in the angry mm inside the middle in the Lord understand that discipline, it is not control, control is ugly, discipline is beautiful.
discipline (discipline) means the ability to learn, so will There is another word mm he take risks, seek to explore, ready to enter the unknown darkness of the night; he will not grasp their own already know, is not afraid to commit any mistake, he always ready to fall into the gutter, he was at any time People laugh at the mental preparation.
have enough guts to be treated as a fool, the only way you can really go and live in love, the only way to know to take place, the only way you can do yourself.
mature As more and more profound life experiences from, if you escape from life, you will be in their lives just a naive person.
One more thing: When I said that when a child, I do not want you to behave naive. Children must be naive, or he would miss out on many childhood experiences: But then again, no matter what your age, size, when you are naive when it means you have not grown up. When a child is completely Different thing, What do you mean?
First of all, children will always be completely, no matter what he is doing, he is completely immersed in them, he would not half-hearted. If he was on the beach picking up shells on, then his consciousness is no other things, he is concerned the only shells and sand, he steeped in it, which completely disappeared. that is, when a child completely the basic characteristics, it is absorbed That is a strong input, it is dedicated dumping.
second child is innocent, he has shown is based on an unknown state, the knowledge to act he will not, because he no knowledge. you are doing something with the knowledge, knowledge represents the past, represents the old, is people have said, the knowledge that you represent piled. The situation is all new never happened , and no knowledge can be applied in these new conditions in order, I am not talking about engineering or technology - in those areas, what the past can be applied, because the machine is a machine. But when you are in the middle of humanity atmosphere, you communicate with people living, no one state is repeated, each time the situation is unique, if you want to make in situations like the right thing, you have to like a child-like , to act out of ignorance.
Do not use your knowledge, not your knowledge to the new response to the new, do not use the old response to the new. If you respond to the old to new, you will miss: you now what happens around you will not be convergence, you will always be a step late, you will not always take the train.
People often dream of trains, they always miss the train . In the dream, the man rushed to the train station hurry, so when he arrived at the train had already left. Many people often do this kind of dream, this is one of the most common dreams, why on earth there are so people often do this kind of dream? because they miss the lives they always late, they tried hard, but the gap is still there, the link is not in their life and they can not integrate into the life, there is always a obstruction in the middle of things, but what is?
obstacles in the way of knowledge.
I teach ignorance mm you like a kid when I say like, it means that you have to keep learning, never to become The learned men who, what knowledge is Siban Ban, and learning is an active process of learning must remember one thing, he can not operate from the perspective of knowledge.
you ever observed, the children learn things quickly. If he is living in a multilingual environment, he can learn to speak each language, the mother said that he will learn the language, the father said he learned the language, the language spoken there is a neighbor - he could easily learn to say three, four, five languages, no problem at all.
if you already speak a language, it again is difficult to learn another language, because then You will operate from the perspective of knowledge. There is a saying that you can not teach an old dog new tricks, words that do not leave, but what makes a dog getting old? This is not a psychological age, because Socrates even to the dying are still learning, the Buddha would have to learn to the last moment, what makes a dog getting old? knowledge of a dog is getting old.
Buddha always remain young, Krishna has always been to stay young, you can not find any of a statue of their old way, they do not back non-aging! Krishna lived to age eighty, but he has a part of the remains within Young, like a child-like, he always knows the state never to respond to things.
So the first, when I say that as a child-like, I mean it perfectly.
Second, keep learning the heart, and never know which action, and that is the meaning of innocence: never know which action is innocent.
third and final thing: the trust of a child has the inherent qualities, or he could not survive. When a child is born, the mother he can trust, trust breast milk to nourish him, and trust everything will be fine, trust in him is absolute, not a trace of doubt. he did not fear anything, his Trust is so deep, but the mother would be afraid, because children can talk to a snake to play, he put his hands in the fire inside: his trust is so deep that he did not know what mm of fear, he did not know To doubt this is the third character.
trust if you know what, if you can once again learn to set foot on the road of trust, you can know the divine, you can learn the truth of what you have to understand this point .
rely on science is suspect, it will become the education of education with suspicion. science relies doubt, no doubt science will not progress: religious relies on trust, without trust, religious experience can not happen, both the opposite direction.
remember one thing, if you trust to do a scientific job, you're missing the point, you will not have any harvest, There will be no new discovery, because when you want to use is suspected.
you have to wonder again and again and again, you have to constantly wonder, until one day you can no longer be planted in a suspect things, and then can not do based on what you have to accept it.
but is still so much doubt, tomorrow there may be new facts emerged, and then the whole idea should be let go, so it is only temporary, science has never found any hh the ultimate truth, only temporary truth, the truth probably only temporarily accept this truth, because who knows what tomorrow will mm the new study found that new facts, new information, so that things are temporary sciences assumptions.
Newton has been found to overthrow Einstein, Albert Einstein discovered the other person will be overthrown, in the realm of science, trust is not needed, is the method of doubt, only to the point of impossible to suspect anything, you just have to trust in mm based on the relationship between time, now you can not do anything, that is temporary, how can you do? further doubt is impossible, you have the Bi-poor down their lives, all the questions have been resolved, so there is a certainty.
religion is entirely different level, just as the scientific method is a doubt, religion is faith, and faith mean? means that we and there are not separate, we are part of it, here is our home. We belong to it, it belongs to us, we are not homeless, the universe is our mother, we can when it's children like a child when he has confidence in time of need, the mother will take care of his needs as mm see he was hungry, mother to feed him, when he felt cold, my mother will come to hug him, give him warmth and care, children can trust. When he appeared in need, he must do is to just call and cry, the mother's attention will naturally fall to him, that's all.
religion said, the universe is our father and mother, Jesus called God closer to daddy (daddy) and not the father, but God called Daddy sounds a bit absurd, the church will not allow you to call him, they would say this is wrong, but Jesus called his father before, and that is Daddy.
In fact, prayer should not be too formal. mm you can touch it, he is almost a reality, you can talk to him. heaven sitting on a high end of the line of the Father, you can cry themselves hoarse to him, but you can not trust their own touch to get it.
to fight will look stupid and ridiculous.
in religious experience, the suspect can not play a role, as trust in science is not the slightest use of the same. scientific means to explore the outside, religion refers to is to explore the inner: Science is the religion of all things, religion is the existence of science. as if you can not see with our ears, like a flower mm regardless of how sensitive your ears, no matter how rich your musical ear, you can not ears in a flower, can only be used to seize the sound of the ear, it has its limitations, in the case you want to see color, light, style, you must look with your eyes.
eyes are beautiful, but it has its limitations mm you can not listen to music through the eyes, even the greatest music can not through your eyes, the eyes are deaf, you must use the ear to listen. suspected something into the door into the nature of trust is the door, only through the trust, you can know the divine.
remember, you have two fall into the fallacy may be among the. the so-called religious people, the church people are always in confrontation with science, it is foolish move, because they have to rely on trusted science. Now, science is revenge mm rely on science to religion is also suspected of logic and humanity, stupid, stupid enough to always make the same mistakes in, stupid medieval church, and now, those self-proclaimed for scientists, those who do the same stupid thing.
an already know people will say, doubt has its own into a world that you can use it as a method, but it has its limitations, do not have to trust used in the top of things, nor to doubt used in the internal ...